My goal is to lead a happy life. The problem is that I feel fast as a victim. We all know this when fatalities occur in life. Whether separation, death, misfortune, unemployment, bullying and much more. We never feel guilty ourselves, but the others take the place and feel ourselves as victims of the circumstances. Often the conflict is to abandon the comfortable attitude of the victim and to take action. The first step in getting out of the victim role is for me to take full responsibility for my life. What helps me is the positive attitude towards life. Every event can be won over something enjoyable. Everything has only the value to which I concede. Do not wait, but take things into your own hands and actively shape your life.